Special days of fasting during the month of Rajab, for example, or the observance of special nights of prayer have no basis in either the Quran or Sunnah. Muslims may, of course, do extra fasting or prayer in this month, but the special feature of Rajab is not more rituals, but peaceful behavior.
In preparing for Ramadan, Rajab can help.
People might reasonably ask why we need sacred months nowadays?
An Opportunity for Peace
Our world today is torn apart. In thinking of the conflicts today, we see how ceasefires here and there are attempted as a way to bring a more lasting peace.
Non-Muslims are clearly puzzled when they hear that Islam is a religion of peace; but on their television screens, they see something altogether different.
What could be clearer, though, than to explain to them that in this month of Rajab, fighting and haram behavior is forbidden? It will be obvious, then, that those who persist in this behavior are transgressing the bounds of Islam.
Peace among Muslims in the month of Rajab would be a great gift not only to the worldwide Ummah, but to the world itself. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) warned Muslims repeatedly about fighting one another; he called it one of the greatest sins, so grave it can lead to disbelief.
Allah has prescribed sacred months not just for the Arabs fourteen centuries ago; they’re for all of us and for all time.
A sacred month, devoid of fighting, is just one more of Allah’s innumerable gifts; we should ponder deeply on its meaning in our own lives. Being peaceful does not mean being weak. It takes great inner strength to approach your enemies or those with whom you disagree with a message of peace.
During the month of Rajab, month of peace, let us all try to follow his example.
(From Discovering Islam’s archive)